 
		How to explain
to my kids
     Orlando
     Newtown
     Stockton
     Montreal
     1Pine Ridge
     Santa Ana *	
They who are still learning
     take turns
     work it out
     be kind
     make a better choice
Do I teach them
     white supremacy
     
imperialism
     homophobia
     misogyny
     patriarchy
     toxic masculinity
When all I want for them is love?
	I want them to know
	the dead each
	had names
	family and friends and pets
	they loved and were loved
they dreamt and toiled
they lived and live on
     more than
          in spite of
               beyond
those bullets
that hatred
those words
* See the 1899 Philippine-American war photo of "the insurgent dead, just as they fell in the trench near Santa Ana," https://research.archives.gov/id/524389. My son asked me about this image when he was about 8, and I told him it was emblematic of my family's history as a colonized people.